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Understanding the Link Between Self-Harm and Suicide
Self-harm and suicide are two deeply concerning mental health issues in the UK that often intersect in complex ways. While not everyone who self-harms is suicidal, self-harm can be a significant risk factor for future suicide attempts. Understanding this connection is essential for providing the right support, reducing stigma, and encouraging early intervention. The Statistics According to data from the UK’s Office for National Statistics (ONS) and mental health charities: Ar
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Jul 19, 20252 min read


Understanding the Nervous System
Understanding the Nervous System: Rebuilding the Mind-Body Connection After Self-Harm When you’ve experienced emotional pain that feels...
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Jul 18, 20252 min read


Trauma Responses - The 4 F’s
Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn: Trauma Responses That Look Like “Bad Behaviour” When someone lashes out, shuts down, or can’t stop...
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Jul 16, 20252 min read


Have you tried Box Breathing!
🧡💚 Feeling overwhelmed or anxious? 💚🧡 Try Box Breathing It’s a simple but powerful technique used by athletes, first responders, and...
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Jul 13, 20251 min read


The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique Explained
The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique is a powerful, simple method used to manage anxiety, panic attacks, or overwhelming stress. It helps...
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Jul 12, 20251 min read


Panic Attacks are Real and Scary!
🧠 Let’s Talk About Panic Attacks: Real, Raw, and Terrifying Panic attacks are real. They’re not “just in your head” and if you’ve ever...
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Jul 12, 20252 min read


Neurodivergent Individuals and Self-Harm
Neurodivergent individuals often self-harm more than neurotypical people due to a complex mix of neurological, emotional, sensory, and...
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Jul 10, 20252 min read
🌟Alcohol Awareness Week 7th - 13th July 🌟
This week, we’re shining a light on alcohol harm and the impact it can have on our health, families, and communities. 👉 Did you know? 🔹...
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Jul 7, 20251 min read
Thinking About Telling Your Parents You’re Self-Harming?
Thinking About Telling Your Parents You’re Self-Harming? If you’re self-harming, I want you to know this: you are not bad, broken, or...
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Jul 2, 20252 min read
When I Found Out My 11-Year-Old Was Self-Harming: What I’ve Learned, and What Might Help You
When I Found Out My 11-Year-Old Was Self-Harming: What I’ve Learned, and What Might Help You When I first discovered that my 11-year-old...
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Jul 1, 20252 min read


Sponsor a School
🟠🟢 CALLING ALL BUSINESSES 🟢🟠 We are asking businesses and organisations to support us in supporting children and young people! For...
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Jun 28, 20252 min read
Supporting Recovery
Supporting Recovery: How S&L Self-Harm Distraction Kits Help Prevent Self-Harm At S&L Self-Harm Distraction Kits, we understand that...
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Jun 23, 20252 min read


Self-Care is Key!
The Importance of Self-Care for Those Affected by Self-Harm Self-harm is a complex behaviour that can deeply impact both individuals who...
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Jun 20, 20252 min read


Why Self-Harm Can Feel Like Relief, But Isn’t the Answer!
Why Self-Harm Can Feel Like Relief, But Isn’t the Answer When someone self-harms, it’s often not about connection seeking, it’s about...
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Jun 18, 20251 min read
What to Say When You Discover Your Child is Self-Harming
💔 What to Say When You Discover Your Child is Self-Harming 💬 Finding out that your child is self-harming can be terrifying and...
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Jun 16, 20251 min read


Breaking the Cycle of Self-Harm:
Breaking the Cycle of Self-Harm: Understanding the Emotional Journey Self-harm is a complex behaviour often misunderstood by those who...
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Jun 14, 20253 min read


Understanding Why Young People Self-Harm and How to Support Them.
Understanding Why Young People Self-Harm and How to Support Them. Self-harm is a significant and complex issue impacting numerous young...
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Jun 14, 20253 min read
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